Life Coach DM & 
the Massive Mindset Shift

Dream More, Do More, With Life Coach DM!

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How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a Certified Transition Coach?

To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “compelling story”, that brought me to where I am today – coaching awesome but anxious people like you on exactly what to do to transition from one phase of life to the next with reduced stress, more confidence and a fabulous sense of self-worth. That defining moment in my life happened in December 2009.


It was a journey that began to climax in February 2009, my husband of 13 years came to me telling me about all the regrets he had in life. Everything from not crossing the street at a certain point where his mom said was too far, to never having a one-night stand. OMG it’s a mid-life crisis and my first thought was “How can I help this poor man?” Well, I couldn’t do anything about his mommy issues, so I told him to go have a one-night stand… bad move. A one-night stand turned into days and weeks. In an effort, to save my relationship I had agreed to this new open relationship status. I was miserable, this was the straw that broke the camels back. For so many years in this long relationship I compromised my happiness for this man. I gave up acting, dancing, career advancement and being true to myself. I couldn’t deal with my husband going out, telling me about his adventures and then asking me about mine. Crying too often, telling my children it was my allergies. I continued to go to work where I was in middle management and was top of my game heading up the local chapter of the professional organization I belonged to. However, going to work began to feel like my hiding place. I felt like I was in control at work, but my personal life was in shambles. People at work never knew what was going on in my personal life, I wouldn’t talk to anyone about it in fear of embarrassment. Not talking and keeping all the frustration inside brought me to a really dark place in my mind where thoughts of ending my existence crept in and I finally went to a doctor. I was prescribed the all too common “happy pills”. I hated being on medication. There had to be a better way... I stopped taking the meds, started reading many self-help books, learned about and started practicing meditation and learned about the Law of Attraction. During this same period of developing my knowledge base, a guy friend of mine from when I was a teenager messaged me on one of my social media accounts. My husband encouraged me to go out with this friend saying it was us against the world and said it would all be ok in the end. I reluctantly followed through with his suggestion. During this time of self-education, I learned to be more confident, and through meditation I became mentally stronger. That December, I changed how I was going to deal with this situation. I showed how strong and accepting I was by helping my husband pick out a Christmas present for his “one-night stand”. Then it happened, I was done, I was comfortable being the strong woman had become vs. the passive aggressive individual I had been for so long. When my husband saw my happiness and strength he quickly wanted to have me all to his own again. My husband offered to end his relationship. No thank you… I’m done. I had a new-found power in my life. I was a successful corporate professional working as a Certified Fraud Examiner and I now had power over my personal life. My husband was right it was all right in the end. Now, looking back, I knew my relationship with my husband wasn’t good for me from the very beginning. I just didn’t listen to my intuition. And my guy friend I had reconnected with, in retrospect I realized he had actually shown up various times before I was married whenever I had “boy” troubles just the way he did now. Now that I am also certified as a Law of Attraction Practitioner, I realize this wasn't coincidence. It was the Law of Attraction at its best!!


After I became a Certified Law of Attraction Practitioner, I realized that this amazing and powerful Universal law has worked for me throughout the years since I was a child without even realizing it. I grew up studying ballet. I danced from age two to twenty-two. At an early age I dreamt of being the Swan Queen after our local studio did their rendition of Swan Lake. I always said that when I grew up that would be me and I would be proposed to on stage. The school never performed Swan Lake again after I saw it at about age 7. Then when I was 21 the head teacher asked if I would like to be Swan Queen. And Voila my last performance as the Swan Queen I was proposed to. Funny part of the story is that I laid out the circumstances to the Universe but not the detail… I was only dating my husband 2 months when this occurred. Circumstances like this where I put something out to the Universe and they came back to me, have presented themselves repeatedly throughout my life. Now I know how to utilize this to my benefit.


At my core, I am a Spiritual based human. Focusing on meditation and learning how to deal with stress over the years helped me overcome my depression and stress. The conventional ways of trying to pull me out of the darkness hadn't worked and I don't know if I would have made it without the alternative forms of healing coupled with the power we can find by rooting into our own power to heal mind, body and soul. Yoga, healthy eating, meditation, mindfulness, connecting with and being one with the Universe are all means of self-healing. All take commitment and practice.

My life on the other side of this work leaves me in a happy and content and in a relationship, that is filled with respect where we honor each other's independence (yes, I’m still with my rekindled love from my teenage years). I've been able to shed my ego in my relationship. I've developed such a deep bond with my children. As I navigated the divorce we all grew into the people we were divinely intentioned to be. I have intentioned to live a life of honesty and transparency and look to help others do the same.


I cleaned up my past and started teaching other people how they can do the same: I help them to reduce their stress, increase their confidence, their self-worth and their ability to transition into the next phase of life naturally! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other people condition their mindsets to live their best lives through connecting with the Universe and empowering themselves.


Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups: I’m living my dream of helping others, living a life complete with work life balance, little to no stress or anxiety, a life full of love, joy, happiness and abundance in all areas of my life; and I have created a program just for you called the “Massive Mindset Shift™" from Frazzled to Fabulous”. This is a 3-month series of one on one and group coaching sessions, videos, audios, reports and bonuses personalized for you. By focusing on evaluating and abolishing the self-defeating beliefs that are holding you back and the tools and actions that can be used to shift your mindset naturally including Mindfulness, Meditation and the Law of Attraction, I will help you take on life with a new power that comes from a place of equanimity, mental strength and positivity. Every individual who feels trapped and stressed in their life whether it be personally or professionally and has a deep nagging feeling that there is more to life needs to sign up for this program to take them to the next phase of their life with an abundance of control, elevated self-confidence, serenity and self-imposed power!!

Who are your clients?

I work with people just like you, who are completely stressed out by life and don’t know how to handle it anymore. Individuals who feel trapped, stuck in a rut, who know they need to make a change but don’t know why all prior efforts have failed them. People who are done with letting others walk all over them leaving them to wonder about their own self-worth. People who have suffered with depression and want another way out of it because they know medication is not for them. Basically, all those who are ready to take back their life and make a change for their higher good.

  • Business Professionals
    • Executives
    • Managers
    • Analysts
    • Administrators
    • Educators
    • Law Enforcement
    • Investigators
    • Accountants
    • Auditors
  • Housewives
  • Parents
  • Retirees or those planning for retirement
  • Real Estate Agents
  • Sales Professionals
  • Artists
  • Solo-preneurs (individuals searching for purpose)
  • Entrepreneur

What makes you different from other “Transition Coaches”?

Although we will touch upon key concepts such as Letting Go of the Past, Courage, Motivation and other “Life Coach-y” things, you have me as a confidence building, life-balance and law of attraction wealth practitioner and consultant. I work with you on the inner and outer principals for success and help you look at your life from an organic and spiritual perspective. I’ve been there, so I also have an insiders perspective. What that means to you is that you get a wise-sage-meets-kick-butt authentic transition coach who will help you focus on abundance in all areas of your life. I’m also very spiritual and I don’t pretend to hide it either. Although I may be easy going and soft spoken, I’m not delicate, you’ll always get a straight to the point quick and honest response from me.


I’m mostly concerned with how to get you to transition into this next phase of your life with confidence, control and empowerment. You may not like what I have to tell you – but you can be ascertained, I will always tell you the truth. The truth about what’s standing in the way of your success and how to get rid of it FAST so you can start getting results in record time (and with compassion and understanding, I throw in a healthy dose of humor and inspiration, which always helps!).

What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?

The Massive Mindset Shift workshops, products and programs were created for people who are absolutely excited and dead serious about achieving reduced stress, more confidence and power over their life situation – it means not running around all day long, beating yourself up anymore saying: “I can’t take it anymore, nothing is working out for me”, “I should’ve done…” or “I wish I would’ve said…” or even “Why did I let so and so do that to me”. This program was created for you to put systems in place within a few months (sometimes weeks!), which will eventually lead you to an understanding of the tools that can be used to achieve a better attitude, more confidence, courage like you’ve never imagined having before, life balance, self-assuredness, more energy, serenity and a feeling of power to take on the world around you!!


The fact that I’ve been a corporate professional, mom and wife myself, I’m known to work best with other professionals and women, people who are committed to their success no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to live a life full of joy, confidence and self-imposed power with abundance in all areas of life personally, professionally and / or spiritually. My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a very powerful crash course on everything you need to know to transition from where you are now to achieving everything you set your mind to do in a holistic way. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal and make a huge change in your life for your higher good.

For what type of individuals are your programs NOT going to work?

Please know I’m very selective in who I work with and I cherry-pick my clients, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for my programs and won’t get the results for which they would have signed up for. (It wouldn’t be fair to them.) The Massive Mindset Shift from Frazzled to Fabulous programs are NOT for those who have no money coming in and are absolutely, financially desperate, at least not right away. It’s been my experience that people in financial crisis do not trust the recommendations I give them and do not do the work (probably because they spend so much time worrying about where they are going to get next month’s rent check or mortgage payment.) If you fall within this category, it’s absolutely OK. We’ve all been in times of financial crisis at one point or another. Do yourself (3) favors:


  1. Get some money coming in with a full-time or part-time job at the very least, and then call me. This will take the edge off and provide a little more peace of mind. Mostly, it will de-clutter your mind enough to focus on your Massive Mindset Shift assignments and the BIG picture. Once you start seeing your successes as a result of our work you will appreciate the investment.

  2. Sign up for the free “Small Changes: Big Impact” workbook http://tinyurl.com/SmallChangesBigImpact. This free information will get you started towards your goals until you’re ready to work with me one-on-one.

  3. Make a point to read the ”Transition Times” my weekly e-zine filled with tips for successful change. The tips are sent weekly and will give you LOTS to think about.

Doing these three things will really help you get primed for our work. When you’re ready, call me and we’ll get you started. (I’m in no rush and will be here when you need me.) Other types of personalities I won’t work with (without exception) are the whiners or the chronic skeptic, as well as individuals who consistently make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenging every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not call and I hope you understand why. We’ll probably just not work well together and I wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Is that fair?

What exactly is The Massive Mindset Shift from Frazzled to Fabulous™ system and what does it include?

The Massive Mindset Shift from Frazzled to Fabulous begins with understanding your true value, where your power really comes from, how to manifest what you want (including more money), creating powerful intentions that get you out of your current stressful, stagnant, negative situation and into a life that is more fulfilling, empowering and Fabulous.


Here’s what the System gets you to do:


1.    Set Your Intentions

We examine where you are in currently in life and get CRYSTAL clear about your intentions, what you want to experience in your personal life and / or professional life. Before you can manifest what you want you have to KNOW what you want. You’ll learn the difference between setting goals and intentions, and how we will use the Law of Attraction to your advantage in this transition.

2.     Release Your Inner Resistance

You probably have a good idea of what you need to be doing but yet are still struggling in procrastination, feeling stuck and spinning in circles. You’ll be learning proven techniques for breaking through your inner resistance, personal negativity, self-doubt, fear, anxiety and all of that “stuff” that keep you playing small.

3.     Understanding You

After tackling all the dirt there is still some work to do in order to help you in moving from the past to the present and into the future. Understanding your values and how your choices are made will also help you to move on to the fabulous life that you truly deserve.

4.     The Skills for Success

Once you have released the negativity in your life and you have a greater understanding of you, it’s time to

zone in on skills for success including the power of focus and listening to help you thrive.


5.     The Law of Attraction

Next we’ll work on self-confidence, self-belief, gratitude and dive into the Law of Attraction and the power of affirmations so you can get a better understanding of how these key concepts and affirmations can take you to the next level!


6.     Tools of the Trade

In connection with releasing your inner resistance, getting a firm understanding of who you are, and locking down the skills for mental success, you will learn what methods and tools are available to you to help keep that negativity at bay. Here we will focus on what it means to be mindful and how meditation can be incorporated in your daily routine.


7.     A New Way to Look at Life

You have released the negativity in your life and you have a new set of power tools in your back pocket. Now your clear for greater acceptance and understanding of how your life balance, faith (not necessarily religious) and enthusiasm can help you have a more fulfilling life.

8.     It’s Time To Flourish!!

The past is the past, you know what you want, you’ve got the tools and skills, you have shifted to a positive mindset but what are the next steps? How do you finally make that transition and have a completely Massive Mindset Shift?

Here we will look at and get a grasp on the traits to bring you to the next level: Passion, Motivation, Determination and Perseverance.


9.     Visualize and Seize the Future

It’s all about DREAMING BIG, visualizing the future and getting an understanding of what success programing is.


10.    Celebration Time Come On!!

We’ll focus time celebrating wins and creating the new habit of celebrating what’s showing up for you. What you focus on expands and everything you are learning and experiencing is of your creation. Your confidence will thrive as you consistently produce results over and over again! Celebrate what shows up so you can pave the way for even more success!

Does this really work?

Yes! The result of our work is an approach to shifting your mindset and getting you UNSTUCK with LESS STRESS. If you stick with the program and don’t half ass the assignments there’s no way you will be in the same frame of mind as when you started. Show up to the weekly calls, participate in the working group, watch the videos and read the supporting documentation and you will have a MASSIVE MINDSET SHIFT ! (See Testimonials)

What results can I expect?

  • Have big breakthroughs and ah ha moments
  • Health benefits, living stress free
  • Anxiety dissipates letting peace and calm set in
  • Creating new standards for yourself
  • Reaching for your passions in life
  • Discover yourself & set goals and more importantly reach them
  • Feel empowered & excited about the future
  • Fall back in love with yourself
  • Breakout in Creativity
  • Vibrate as a loving being, and become truly unconditionally loving with all your relationships
         (even the most intense ones that normally trigger you)
  • Develop more compassion for yourself and others
  • Be clear concise and honest in your communications
  • Create healthy boundaries
  • Have more ease and grace in your life
  • Truly love the version of yourself that shows up to play this game called life
  • Learn how to say NO and honor your yes and no’s
  • Find your happiness
  • Watch your best life unfold with ease
  • Connect with your intuition
  • Create DEEP intimacy and meaning in your personal relationships
  • Understand how your soul is awakening and developing
  • End the drama cycles and patterns
  • Raise your self-esteem and self confidence
  • Rewrite your story. It isn’t over yet!
  • Open your heart and expand into your TRUE being
  • Gain unshakeable confidence in yourself – (a lot of my clients tell me that is worth the investment alone).
  • Learn proven techniques for releasing your internal resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies so you can
         take action and start living your passion and purpose with ease.

Can I contact some of your former clients to see what it’s like to work with you?

Yes, I encourage you to! Please go to the Client Testimonials page and read all of them. See which ones you feel drawn to, either because the person has gotten the results you want to get too, or perhaps because that person is in a similar situation or what they say simply resonates with you. Then feel free to email or call them and ask what they got from working with me.

How quickly can I expect results?

That depends on how quickly you can make those inner shifts. Some clients are ready to go and make huge changes in their life in a very short time frame, sometimes even a few weeks while others have a bit more work to do first. It also depends on your level of commitment. If you don’t invest the time to work on yourself you won’t see any change. You can’t sign up for the program and expect me to wave a magic wand to take you to the next level.

How can I guarantee myself that I will get more self-confidence and control in my life, in record time?

Do all of your homework. Be totally committed to your success. Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take inspired action and implement all of the steps. All my clients who have diligently applied every step of The Massive Mindset Shift program have successfully transitioned with confidence into their next phase of life, in much less time than they would have on their own. Some clients have left their sabotaging relationships, others have successfully started their own businesses, some have moved into retirement and are simply living the life of their dreams. Yet, others are simply living a more purposeful successful life with work life balance, free of depression and simply know how to handle situations when they come up. They no longer let others walk all over them and they are no longer stuck in a rut. Everyone is living a happier, heathier more abundant life. Some have continued with me for additional success coaching or have just continued to stay in touch to keep me apprised of their successes.

Dawn-Marie, based on everything I’ve read and heard about you, I know you’re the one I want to learn from. What are my options for getting started with you?

Congratulations on making a decision for success! I’m happy to work with you to achieve your goals. The best way to work with me is through my 90-day Massive Mindset Shift from Frazzled to Fabulous program. Here’s some of the results you can expect...


  • Have big breakthroughs and ah ha moments
  • Health benefits, living stress free
  • Anxiety dissipates letting peace and calm set in
  • Creating new standards for yourself
  • Reaching for your passions in life
  • Discover yourself & set goals and more importantly reach them
  • Feel empowered & excited about the future
  • Fall back in love with yourself
  • Breakout in Creativity
  • Vibrate as a loving being, and become truly unconditionally loving with all your relationships
         (even the most intense ones that normally trigger you)
  • Develop more compassion for yourself and others
  • Be clear concise and honest in your communications
  • Create healthy boundaries
  • Have more ease and grace in your life
  • Truly love the version of yourself that shows up to play this game called life
  • Learn how to say NO and honor your yes and no’s
  • Find your happiness
  • Watch your best life unfold with ease
  • Connect with your intuition
  • Create DEEP intimacy and meaning in your personal relationships
  • Understand how your soul is awakening and developing
  • End the drama cycles and patterns
  • Raise your self-esteem and self confidence
  • Rewrite your story. It isn’t over yet!
  • Open your heart and expand into your TRUE being
  • Gain unshakeable confidence in yourself – (a lot of my clients tell me that is worth the investment alone).
  • Learn proven techniques for releasing your internal resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies so you can
         take action and start living your passion and purpose with ease.

OK, I’m ready to do this for myself, but I have a couple of additional questions. Can I call you?

Good, sounds like you’re ready to be pulled into your future! Yes, if you have a couple of questions, just email me at info@lifecoachdm.com or call us directly (516) 387-2609 and I’ll be happy to walk you through the different options to see which one will be the very best for you. I can’t wait to see you succeed and am honored to be the one to help you. Let’s get going!

Let's do this together!
Peace, Happiness and Light to you!

Dawn-Marie

Your Life Coach – Life Coach DM